1 on 1 Coaching

I want to help and give back.  If you read my comeback story this is the reason that I decided to do this.

I navigated a complex custody process during Covid which was long and drawn out lasting well over a year before Custody was finalized. Working with DCF, my Attorney and the court system after a series of health battles.  This experience taught me what works -  and what does not work - when fighting for your child.

This is more than about custody. It is the blueprint on how to win in life.

Before I get into Life Lessons...  

1.)  You MUST Discriminate, do these people deserve to be in you life and I don't mean on anything other than who should be in your life... I want to know everything. What did your parents do for work? Who do you hangout with? What are your future plans? How serious are you about your goals? And do you have results? Verifiable Results? Never take criticism from people, whose lives you don't want to live. So if Joey Bag O' Donuts works at a gym and I like going to the gym and Joey Bag O' Donuts criticizes me about my life, I don't care & I don't want your life.

2.) Does your Career and Life Match your lifestyle? Meaning I am judging and Hard. If I ever had to explain this person and choices they made when Career doesn't match life style to another Engineer or even, a Doctor, Lawyer, & Accountant, CFO, CEO and I can't without putting my head down in shame imagining this person's response, then this is the type of person that needs to go. If a person makes 50k and buy a 50k car it doesn't add up, clearly living out of their means and if mommy and daddy bought them a car and they traded it in for an upgrade (unless under 25 years old). Completely Unacceptable this type of person they got to go. These people should not be in your life get them out.

3.)  Watch the videos... request topics

Life Lessons: Advice on friends, fake friends that are envious and try to one up you and career and life goals. I have seen it all from one uppers "trying to outdo me" e.g. out do my car  key word "trying". I have seen people over 30 years old get cars from their mommy and daddy and then trade it and buy a luxury car you know this isn't what real success looks like. I have had past situations that my advice is based on e.g. as the 1% raise more than others I mentioned in my Professional Accomplishments that luckily my boss (good boss) who understood value got me the 1% raise because a supervisor tried to give it to someone based on friendship over course I took and my hard work.

I have dealt with situations that have allowed me to have a better understanding of how I can help others. I have heard it all people at work places in my past before Engineering saying ridiculous things e.g. "nobody is on my level" as I surpassed them to "I gotta be top 10", completely outrageous situations.  I have seen people every job they had they were a "Manager"... how can one be a Manager with no prior experience listed before that??? Makes 0 sense... liar / title inflation

I have videos on YouTube about these things and take requests for video topics. 

Upcoming Video topics

• The Lonely Chapter
• Fake Friends
• How to Reverse the hierarchy
• Silent on your Wins
• (BEFORE I got to Engineering) Dealing with awful coworkers (equals, above and below) or people who Overvalued themselves